Influence, New and Expanded
Master the art of persuasion and understand why people say ‘yes’.
Summary of 7 Key Points
Key Points
- Reciprocity: The obligation to give back
- Commitment and Consistency: Aligning actions with commitments
- Social Proof: The power of what others do
- Liking: The persuasive power of affinity
- Authority: The influence of expertise
- Scarcity: The perception of limited availability
- Unity: The force of shared identity
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Reciprocity: The obligation to give back
In the discussion of reciprocity, the principle is explained as a powerful social norm that dictates that we should repay others in kind for what they have provided to us. This means if someone does us a favor, we feel a compelling urge to return that favor, thus creating a cycle of mutual exchange and obligation. The sense of indebtedness is a strong motivator for human behavior, and understanding this can explain a lot about social interactions and how people can influence one another…Read&Listen More
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Commitment and Consistency: Aligning actions with commitments
The principle of Commitment and Consistency, as outlined, suggests that once people make a choice or take a stand, they are under internal and external pressure to behave consistently with that commitment. This is because personal and interpersonal pressures compel individuals to align their actions with their commitments and values. The idea is that consistency is highly valued by society, thus once someone commits to something, they prefer to stick to it even in the face of contradictory evidence or changing circumstances. This commitment then drives their actions moving forward, and they may perform mental gymnastics to justify their continued adherence to the initial commitment…Read&Listen More
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Social Proof: The power of what others do
Social proof is a psychological phenomenon where people assume the actions of others in an attempt to reflect correct behavior for a given situation. This principle stems from the reality that individuals often find themselves in circumstances where they are uncertain about what to do. When faced with ambiguity, they naturally look to others for cues on how to behave. Social proof is most powerful in situations where there’s ambiguity and where people are similar to us. The tendency to see an action as more appropriate when others are doing it is exploited in various contexts, including marketing and online behaviors…Read&Listen More
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Liking: The persuasive power of affinity
The principle of Liking states that individuals are more likely to be persuaded or influenced by people they like. This affinity can stem from various factors including physical attractiveness, similarities in opinions, personality, background, or lifestyle. When someone is deemed likeable, their ability to sway opinions, decisions, and behaviors is significantly enhanced. The concept is rooted in the natural human tendency to associate with and trust individuals who are perceived as friendly and similar to oneself…Read&Listen More
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Authority: The influence of expertise
Authority as a principle of influence is deeply embedded in the fabric of society, where individuals are conditioned to follow the lead of experts and those with specialized knowledge. The principle asserts that people are more likely to comply with requests or adhere to suggestions made by individuals whom they perceive to be authorities in a particular domain. This is because the possession of expertise or a reputation for knowledge grants the individual an air of credibility, making others more willing to accept and follow their guidance…Read&Listen More
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Scarcity: The perception of limited availability
Scarcity is a psychological principle that suggests that humans place a higher value on an object that is scarce, and a lower value on those that are abundant. The perception of limited availability increases desire, as people anticipate the regret they might feel if they miss out on an opportunity. This sense of potential loss plays a powerful role in decision-making, making scarce items seem more valuable and more desirable to obtain. The exclusivity associated with scarce products can generate a sense of prestige and urgency among consumers…Read&Listen More
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Unity: The force of shared identity
The principle of Unity is one of the central themes discussed in ‘Influence, New and Expanded’, which revolves around the concept of shared identity and how it can be a powerful motivator for human behavior. The author posits that when individuals perceive themselves as part of a group, they are more likely to act in ways that are consistent with the group’s norms and interests. This principle is rooted in the idea that people have a fundamental need to belong, and as such, they often seek out groups that share their values, beliefs, or characteristics…Read&Listen More