John M. Gottman and Nan Silver
What’s inside
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work’ by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver offers groundbreaking insights into the dynamics of marriage. Based on Gottman’s extensive study of couples over several years, this book outlines practical strategies and principles that couples can apply to enhance their relationship. It explores the common pitfalls in marriage and provides tools for improving communication, fostering respect, and creating a deeper emotional connection. The book is particularly notable for introducing concepts like the ‘Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse’ which represent communication styles that, according to Gottman, can predict the end of a relationship.
You’ll Learn
- Improving communication and understanding within your relationship
- Building a stronger emotional connection with your partner
- Learning practical strategies to resolve conflicts
- Gaining insights into maintaining a healthy and lasting marriage
Key Points
- Enhancing Love Maps to know your partner better
- Nurturing Fondness and Admiration
- Turning Toward Each Other Instead of Away
- Letting Your Partner Influence You
- Solving Solvable Problems
- Overcoming Gridlock on Perpetual Issues
- Creating Shared Meaning
Who’s it For
- Newlyweds
- Long-term couples
- Marriage counselors
- Individuals interested in relationship psychology
About the author
John M. Gottman is a renowned psychologist known for his work on marital stability and relationship analysis through scientific direct observations. The culmination of his research, which spans over four decades, has cemented his reputation as a leading figure in the psychology of marriage. With numerous published books, Gottman has significantly contributed to our understanding of the dynamics that strengthen or weaken marital bonds.